Your eyes tell a lot about your intentions. People who flirt well are good at using their peepers to convey the underlying message. They look at what interests them most, so in your case that means looking at your date. We’re not talking about ogling her cleavage or his package, depending on orientation. This is usually a bad way to convey your message. What we mean is that people who are interested in something, be it a person or something like a picture, will look at it. Although a Picasso won’t care how you stare at it, a person will. You don’t want to come off as a seedy creep with a one-track mind. You should be subtle, showing your interest simply by paying attention and trying to smile through your eyes. If you’re not sure what I mean, find yourself a mirror. Stand there and try and smile by looking at yourself and keeping your mouth inactive. Ideally your mouth can be used in tandem, but there are times when the eyes are all you’ll need. A bit of prep time beforehand will ensure you have this maneuver down pat.
Another helpful guiding principal to practice I the use of facial expressions, so keep in front of that mirror. Try to convey interest and see if it looks like the face you want to present. Use different emotions and correct any problems you see. You might have years of practice to undo if your seductive looks like something out of Psycho, but you’ll be well on your way to a successful display of flirtation with a little effort.
"You should be able to deliver any topic of conversation in a subtle manner that drips of flirtation."
Another great idea that that will help with guiding you in your flirtations is to consider what you say and how you say it. Good writers will show something to you with their words and not tell you. This principal is important when it comes to flirting. If someone wants to show you they’re interested, they might slow down their rate of speech, allowing you to hang on each of their words. They could drop their voice to a more calming tone, something that guides you closer what they’re saying – not in a way that drives you away. All this can be done no matter what you’re talking about. Try it out if you’re not sure what we mean. Get back in front of that mirror and talk about your day at work, the trip to the grocery store or the meal you ate for lunch. You should be able to deliver any topic of conversation in a subtle manner that drips of flirtation. Master it ad you’re game is bound to improve.
Once you master these skills, you will become a guide for flirting instead of needing to read one. Keep in mind that these signs should also be coming back your way if you have any hope for success. Sure, you may be a lot better than they are at showing interest, especially after reading this article, but not everyone can be a pro. We’ll be happy just to know that you’ve achieved a sweet level of mastery of the flirtation techniques we’ve outlined here!
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