Dating a married woman is not recommended—at least not if your heart is involved. How did you ever get into a position like this? Were you trolling for connections on Ashley Madison again? Love is one of the strongest emotions and connecting yourself with someone who may never be yours is a recipe for disaster. Even if there is a long-term chance that you can date the married woman of your dreams, the fact that she’s cheating on her husband should say something about her character. On the other hand, if you’re doing it for fun and adventure, you might get more than you bargained for. Whatever the case, bulletproof jackets are advised.

Most would like to think that love is a gray area, but it shouldn’t be for a married woman. The fine lady has already said, “Till death do us part,” to some other poor bloke. That’s a huge commitment. Although she might say that she is yours, the truth may be far different. Are you willing to wait while she slides back and forth between beds? How long before the lies she tells on his side of the fence start to influence the paranoia on your side? There’s a difference between right and wrong. A grown woman should know this. Look for a definitive choice if your heart is involved because love that involves you should be black and white.

"...the truth remains that she is cheating on someone."

The fact that a married woman is dating you should say something about her. Okay, she has finally been struck with good taste—that much we know! But beyond that, past the tender looks and soft kisses, the truth remains that she is cheating on someone. But this just isn’t any someone, now is it. This is her husband. This is the guy she stood at the altar with and made the most serious promise a person can make to another. If she treats him with this much disrespect, how can you ever feel secure in any type of relationship with her?

We have to give a nod to the possibility that this is all just fun and games for you and that your heart may be on vacation somewhere else while your dating this married woman. If this is the case, my hands are tied. I want the best for you, if only because you’re reading this article, so I won’t mention anything about adultery being cheap, slimy or it being a reflection on your character. After all, I’d hate to offend! My belief is that you can do anything in life as long as nobody gets hurt. If your married girlfriend’s husband doesn’t find out, then you get off on a technicality. However, in case he does find out, we suggest you hire some bodyguards or take up running.

Dating a married woman is a dangerous game to play at a level where games shouldn’t exist. If Ican’t dissuade you from the course, then I would like to wish you the best of luck. It can be dangerous dating a married woman so make sure you go into it with your eyes and ears wide open.