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Dating A Married Woman



By: Jenn Malko

Dating Maried WomenDating a married woman is not recommended—at least not if your heart is involved. How did you ever get into a position like this? Were you trolling for connections on Ashley Madison again? Love is one of the strongest emotions and connecting yourself with someone who may never be yours is a recipe for disaster. Even if there is a long-term chance that you can date the married woman of your dreams, the fact that she’s cheating on her husband should say something about her character. On the other hand, if you’re doing it for fun and adventure, you might get more than you bargained for. Whatever the case, bulletproof jackets are advised.

Most would like to think that love is a gray area, but it shouldn’t be for a married woman. The fine lady has already said, “Till death do us part,” to some other poor bloke. That’s a huge commitment. Although she might say that she is yours, the truth may be far different. Are you willing to wait while she slides back and forth between beds? How long before the lies she tells on his side of the fence start to influence the paranoia on your side? There’s a difference between right and wrong. A grown woman should know this. Look for a definitive choice if your heart is involved because love that involves you should be black and white.

"...the truth remains that she is cheating on someone."

The fact that a married woman is dating you should say something about her. Okay, she has finally been struck with good taste—that much we know! But beyond that, past the tender looks and soft kisses, the truth remains that she is cheating on someone. But this just isn’t any someone, now is it. This is her husband. This is the guy she stood at the altar with and made the most serious promise a person can make to another. If she treats him with this much disrespect, how can you ever feel secure in any type of relationship with her?

We have to give a nod to the possibility that this is all just fun and games for you and that your heart may be on vacation somewhere else while your dating this married woman. If this is the case, my hands are tied. I want the best for you, if only because you’re reading this article, so I won’t mention anything about adultery being cheap, slimy or it being a reflection on your character. After all, I’d hate to offend! My belief is that you can do anything in life as long as nobody gets hurt. If your married girlfriend’s husband doesn’t find out, then you get off on a technicality. However, in case he does find out, we suggest you hire some bodyguards or take up running.

Dating a married woman is a dangerous game to play at a level where games shouldn’t exist. If Ican’t dissuade you from the course, then I would like to wish you the best of luck. It can be dangerous dating a married woman so make sure you go into it with your eyes and ears wide open.


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Comments by: prince gbenga adex
to date a married woman, must be some thing special,may be the woman does not like her man any more,or the man does not perform his duties for the woman

Comments by: Carmel
It is dangerous specially when both hearts are in it. I know, I am a married woman going through it with a woman, but my husband is incarcerated. He has a year left from a 10yrs bid! So what does that mean. Am i wrong? I only been married for 2 and off and on for 10! When can I have what I want?

Comments by: Marlon
I was seeing a married women, and its so true what this article says . She dump me for seeing a signal girl telling me i was cheating on her! She got way with murder because now she can just continue her married life like if nothing ever happend... Meanwhile im the cheater the lier the dog.

Comments by: John
It is really a dangerous field. Dating a married woman can be exciting thing one might fall in love, but any way chances to end up together with her are minimal and the guys will be hearted more

Comments by: Sammy
Its so not worth it. The married girl i was dating, just lies all the time. In the end a big blow out fight and well, i have nothing to show for it. No more married woman AND nut cases...im finished. Singles girls only.

Comments by: boo hoo
all these guys crying are little wimps, i shouldnt even call them men because they are more like little girls in high school. if your married and your wife is going to give it up to me then she is going to get it real good, its your fault anyway. and if you are crying over another mans wife because she gave you a little and now youre cut off, you make me vomit. get a life.

Comments by: Shane
Currently in this situation. I am supposedly waiting... for a year now. i Got a divorce 9 months ago. Yet still I wait. Does this ever turn out well for anyone?

Comments by: Peter Gibbins
Just caught girlfriend red handed in bed with her supposedly soon to be ex husband. I suffered more trying to figure out if we going to work or she would simply run back to that abusive bastard. Now that I learned the hard way what was going on, I feel liberated, but yet alone. It hurts and cheating spouses should not be trusted. So again, don t date those married. Unfortunately, I loved her

Comments by: Roland
Relationships evolve over time. After years of marriage and raising a family, differences can arise that lead to feeling alone, missing the intimacy that once was a large part of the marrriage. Counseling may help if both are willing to change but if there is no disire to change the lonliness continues. Discovering others in a similar situation can fill that void without breaking up the family.

Comments by: Frank 28
This is very true I m so hurt that I had to see if other people had gone through this.I just wish I wouldve read this and all the comments earlier. If your considering dating a married woman dnt!!!! The pain in your heart and soul is so profound that u dnt even want to live!!!seriously I ve been hurting so much and crying I just can t wait to not feel anything anymore.