It can be easy to see why some women prefer to date older men.
Younger guys are just coming into their own, unsure and uncertain about life,
despite how much they swear they’re not. They can be inexperienced in
the bedroom and hungry to put notches in their belt, some with little regard
to any relationships they’re currently entertaining. Career paths aren’t
as defined, nor their bank accounts. Dating a younger man has drawbacks that
many older men don’t share.
Dating an older man comes with benefits. Maturity
is certainly one of the biggest and more obvious factors. Mature men tend to
know themselves a little better than younger boys. They typically aren’t
as sexually motivated, either, but that doesn’t mean lovemaking suffers.
They can be mature between the sheets, too, knowing more and taking a different
approach to pleasure. Older men are more established and farther along in their
careers, and security is a nice benefit of tying yourself to a steady life.
If you find the right older man, a big helping of bliss could be in your future!
aren’t as sexually motivated, either, but that doesn’t mean lovemaking
So, now that you’ve set your sites on dating an older
man, it's now a question of where and how to find them. You can wander down
to any local pub and announce that you’re looking for a mature man. I
can just hear the bar stools creaking as they’re pushed back and a fine
group of heavy-set, 30 to 50-year-olds come waddling your way. Hey, even Herbert’s
there and he’s 78! Not quite what you were thinking? No worries. We have
If you’re looking for a really older man, you might want
to consider sites that specifically speak to a target demographic. In our Seniors
Dating section, there are a couple of choices to consider. Having surfed
the sites myself, I know that not every man on there belongs in the age category,
so you could find someone you like even if you are aiming a little lower on
the age scale. Otherwise, just about any dating site will do. I think you’ll
be hard pressed to find a man who won’t consider going out with a younger
woman but you’ll want to make sure your lines of communication are open
just the same. That means be open about what you’re looking for and hopefully
they’ll be honest with you. In the end, a cup of coffee and some decent
conversation never killed anyone, so what do you have to lose?
Resources & advice for dating an older man:
an Older Man: Q&A from About.com
– With an Older Man: A Q&A from a woman’s perspective
Teens Dating Older Men: Solid advice when age and legal issues
come into play
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