Perfect First Date Gifts
By: Jenn Malko
Your first date is your second chance at a first impression so it makes
sense to want to do something that stands out. The easiest thing to do
is to look to your wallet. After all, not having previous encounters of the dating
kind with this person leaves you a little short on gifts and tokens with
sentiment. There are a number of common gifts that will do the trick.
All you’re aiming for is to impress upon them that you’re thinking
about them and leave them with a little something to remember you by after the
date is over. Here are a few common first date gifts to get you started.
Flowers are a traditional first date gift and very fitting for the occasion. We know you’re already calculating the price of a dozen long-stem roses, but perhaps you should think twice. Roses are fantastic flowers and very symbolic of love, but this is a first date. You want to make the right first impression. You want to say, ‘I like you and I want to get to know you better,’ and not ‘I’m madly in love with you. Can I have your hand in marriage’? You don’t want to come on too strong and roses might be considered a little over the top. All you need do is look to any flower shop and you’ll see the wide array of options that are available. One idea is to stop in and ask the florist what they recommend. After all, they’re cutting first date flowers all the time! Otherwise, you can look to some of the more popular flowers for romance, such as the orchid, daisy, lily or lilac. Ideally, when you give flowers, it’s important that they have meaning. On a first date, you’re not likely to share any special botanical connection with your company. However, when you’re three years into a relationship and at a special restaurant and the waiter brings over a vase of white daisies, you’ll both be reminded of the magic created on that first date many years before.
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. The truth, though, is that we all appreciate a great taste sensation. It seem that chocolate ranks high on any list of private tasting pleasures. When it comes to romance, Valentines Day is the clear focal point of celebration, and what says I love you more than flowers and a box of chocolates? Just to clear the air, we’re not suggesting you ask your date to eat their flowers. We’re simply suggesting that chocolates are great first date gifts on any day of the year. You might not always get those tacky heart-shaped boxes, which is a godsend, but you can always find a nice package that should do the trick. If you’re not sure what to get, try a box of truffles. They are usually a couple of bucks apiece but don’t feel the need to blow your bank roll. All it takes is for one to melt in his or her mouth for that rich sugar rush of love to kick in!
"It should be noted that teddy bears might not be the best fist date gift if you’re over the age of 16."
What says warm and fuzzy love better than a plush teddy bear? Giving a gift like a stuffed toy on a first date is yet another common practice. Most gift shops carry them and they come in all shapes, manner of dress and even with various messages attached to them. Remember, this is a first date, so no ‘I love you’s’ or ‘I want to have your babies.’ Simple and cute is best. Depending on how well you know this person, you might be able to find something fitting that will hit the mark. Otherwise, it should be noted that teddy bears might not be the best fist date gift if you’re over the age of 16.
If you’re looking for something a little more fun for a gift on a first date, why not look to the sky? Balloons make fantastic gifts when you want to give something a little out of the ordinary. Any balloon or party shop should be stocked with hundreds of different choices. Balloons come with all kinds of messages on them and in a wide assortment of colors. You can get a whole whack of helium-filled balloons that are bound to make a big impression without sapping the wind out of your savings.
First dates are the perfect time to make an impression. Dating
shouldn’t be about how expensive your gifts are. It’s about beginning
to build something that lasts a lifetime. A small budget and a little bit of
thought before will ensure your gift leaves a lasting memory of your first date
for a long time to come.
User Comments: (enter your comments)
Comments by: Alice
This is going to be my first date with a handsome guy. In fact i was considering buying for him chocolate and a Bible because both of us are christians. This article is great, thanks a great deal, CHEERS!
Comments by: Smitten
I was shocked and speechless when my date came with a small gift.
I ve dated before and never recieved much more than having my end of the bill covered.
Good news, I m hooked on this guy. Now I need some advice on how to stop drooling!I m so into him.
Comments by: Mr.W
This is my first date with a beautiful girl and im gonna take these tips for thought. i was actually considering bringing my date roses but i just dodged a big bullet. Thank you For the tips
Comments by: MAC
the pet lover would be happy if you brought the animal a little something. Maybe a cat toy or I like to bring the woman with a dog, a treat for Fido from the 3 dag bakery (check your local yellow pages for pet boutiques) this lets her know that you care about her best friend as well. The 2nd date you can bring here a little something.
