Dating for the average man should be more intuitive and less alarming. The rules of engagement haven't changed. Yes, you should still pay on the first date. And women would like you to hold the door open for them, even if it is cliché. By tapping into some simple guidelines, well-mannered men can push to the head of the stack of admirers that are lined up in her inbox and end up looking like a perfect gentleman.

1) Hold doors open for women and let them enter first.

2) Follow suggestion 1 unless it’s a revolving door, in which case enter first to get them moving so she doesn’t have to push.

3) A lady should never open her own car door.

4) If she’s driving and lets you in your side of the car first, reach over and unlock her side.

5) Always pay for the first date. After that, you’re on your own. Gentleman should also be smart enough to not get taken for a ride.

6) If you drive her home, make sure she gets inside, even if you’re just watching from your car.

7) Never ask her for personal details such as where she works, where she lives or what gym she goes to every night between five and six. Keep it general.

8) When you’re out together, always keep your attention on her. Never look at another woman. They notice when you do.

9) Don’t be late for a date. Period.

10) Always call the next day to touch base if you had a good time. Never more than one or you might find the line permanently busy.

11) Don’t cancel dates. This could be the woman you love for life and it would be horrible to lose her for BJ’s bachelor party or whatever other asinine event you decide is more important.

12) The moment you realize a relationship isn’t going anywhere, let her know.

13) Never lift a hand in anger.

14) Never call her names, unless it’s out of love.

15) Disagreements are fine but never demean her opinions and views.

16) Always put the toilette seat down.

17) Always wash your hands after.

18) Tip the waiter 15 percent, even if he only did a 10 percent job.

19) Always ask as many questions as you can about them.

20) If you want to kiss her, go 80 percent of the way but no more. If she wants to kiss you, she’ll meet you there.

Keep these 20 tips on good manners in mind and you’re on your way to being the gentleman they’ll want to spend their life with. If you can think of a few more manners for men to keep in mind, click the comment button and add some of your own. We all need the extra advice!