Cupids Dating Blog

Just What Is Christian Love?

Wed, 19 Nov 2008 02:10:00 -0500

Love is obviously something that isn't easy to understand let alone define. While today it is frequently associated with words like romance and commitment, the traditional definition of Christian love stems from the old Greek word "agape" and refers to charity and loving your neighbor and God. This brings up an interesting question: When Christian singles go online today looking for love, just what are they looking for?

The Good, The Bad And The Affluent Singles

Tue, 18 Nov 2008 02:36:57 -0500

Dating affluent singles certainly has its advantages, and wealthy dating sites are a good way to meet people from this demographic. However, what you have to remember is that while financial success can be a good indicator of strong character, this isn't always the case. Like any other demographic grouping, there is a lot of variance from individual to individual, and you'll meet affluent singles who are exactly what you're looking for and others who are so off that you may even start to doubt the primacy of this criterion when looking for dates.

Black Dream Girls: Not Just In The Movies!

Thu, 13 Nov 2008 02:28:50 -0500

If you're the kind of guy who is looking for Black dream girls, you can certainly find your fill at any number of excellent Black dating sites. They are a great forum for making new ebony friends, regardless of who you are, and facilitate meetings between beautiful women of color and those who love them.

A Couple Of Dates With A Big Babe

Mon, 03 Nov 2008 02:58:52 -0500

In the last week I've gone on a couple of dates with a big babe that I've really enjoyed. A friend of mine had actually met her first by way of a BBW dating site. He liked her but felt like she and I might really hit it off, so in a wonderful display of selflessness he suggested I check out her profile and see if we could set up a date. Well, after seeing her profile, I was quite pleased at my friend's suggestion and contacted her right away.

Romance Tips For People Who Give Them

Fri, 31 Oct 2008 02:44:03 -0500

I've always seen matchmaking as an art form. Some artists play the guitar, others work with paint. Similar to a visual artist, a good matchmaker uses his/her keen eyes and ears to recognize character and physical traits in people that will fit well with others, and then offers romance tips to combine them on a canvas, just as one would paint a picture or assemble a puzzle. As with musicians, timing for the matchmaker is also incredibly important. Both people have to be at the right point in their lives for an encounter to take off.

Finding A Good Muslim Dating Service

Wed, 29 Oct 2008 02:48:45 -0500

I'm not a Muslim. In fact, I'm not a Christian either, at least not a practicing one. When it comes to religion, I try to keep it out of my daily life and it rarely enters into my dating life, except with my last girlfriend, but that's a story for another time. You could imagine my surprise when the other day a friend of mine, who knows me pretty well, asked if I could recommend a Muslim dating service for him. While I'm sort of a dating guru to my friends, I've never tried dating Muslims. This is not out of any type of bias on my part, just the way things have turned out until now.

Hot, Hot Dates For Everybody

Mon, 27 Oct 2008 02:46:42 -0500

It depends on exactly what you're looking for, but there are lots of dating sites where you can find hot, hot dates to keep you going through those weekends where all you want to do is have someone to play with. Sites like Alt.com let you find people with alternative lifestyles, and you might be able to add a little kink to your play time.

Looking To Both Sexes To Find One Love

Fri, 24 Oct 2008 02:59:48 -0500

We all have preconceptions about certain things in the dating world and many of us, including some very open-minded people, still subscribe to some stereotypes that don't ring true. One such stereotype is the notion that people not specifically looking for a man or a woman are just looking for a party or a fling, or maybe several flings, as opposed to one love to make a commitment to. Yes, some of them are, but so are some straight and gay men and women like the ones you'll find on some bisexual dating sites.

Things To Do With Dating Websites For The Affluent

Wed, 22 Oct 2008 02:05:45 -0500

There are sites out there to meet just about everyone's needs, tastes and goals, many of which are specifically targeted, such as dating websites for the affluent. This may seem to reflect a strange criteria for starting your search for romance, but many people find wealthy dating sites particularly well suited to helping them find a match. One nice feature about such sites is that they often facilitate some kind of system whereby members can prove their status. It's nice to know you're talking to someone with an authentic background rather than someone boasting of fictitious victories just to get attention.

Advice For My Friend In Arizona: Try Tucson Dating

Mon, 20 Oct 2008 02:57:23 -0500

The other day a friend of mine called me for advice. He had recently separated from his wife and taken a new job in Arizona. Inexperienced with the Tucson dating scene, he hit the bars. When that didn't work he decided to take the plunge and see who he could meet online. When nothing seemed to pan out and he was almost ready to give up, he called me. He knew that I had been quite successful with my Internet hookups in the past and decided I would be his guru for this one. Always up for a challenge and thrilled at being held in such high esteem, I decided I would help him solve his problem and get him out there dating local singles.

Senior Singles Have Youth On Their Side

Fri, 17 Oct 2008 02:39:47 -0500

Imagine that you're 65 years old and have been single for a few years now. You had ended, for whatever reasons, a relationship of over 30 years and had taken some time to yourself before getting back out there. Now you're finally ready to find a new person in your life, so you decide to throw your hat in the ring and hit the senior singles scene. The first thing you discover is that while the principles of love, romance and attraction may be the same, the methods used to find it and the dating scene itself sure has changed since the last time you were available. The main shift being that quite a bit of senior dating these days happens online.

Military Love Changes The Rules Of The Game

Wed, 15 Oct 2008 02:32:51 -0500

It's no secret that people in the military live in an entirely different world. Could it also be true that some long-standing sayings and well-recognized pieces of advice in the civilian world aren't as relevant to men and women in uniform? Everyone knows the old saying that opposites attract. Everyone has also heard the classic advice that it's a really bad idea to date someone you work with. Could it be that both of these time-tested sayings get thrown out the window when it comes to military love? Strangely, this seems to be the case, as evidenced by the popularity of military dating sites on the web.

Kissing Party Girls: Anyone Can Do It!

Fri, 10 Oct 2008 02:55:39 -0500

Summer is coming to a close and the leaves are starting to turn brown. It's time to make a decision. Are you going to make preparations for hibernating all winter, or are you going to get out there, loving life, kissing party girls and having a general blast? Well, what's it going to be? Look, perhaps I can help make your decision a little easier. There are a bunch of really great adult singles online who are literally waiting for you to contact them. I'm not even kidding. There's a guy or gal sitting at home right now looking at an empty inbox, thinking about all the love-making positions they've been wanting to try and here you are, reading this blog entry. My suggestion to you is that you stop and sign up for one right now and fill up someone's inbox. However, if I'm as entertaining as I think I am and you'd like to continue reading, or if you just need a little more convincing, then read on, brave reader!

A Great Weekend With a Sexy Arab Chick

Wed, 08 Oct 2008 02:05:29 -0500

Wow, what an amazing weekend I had. I met a sexy, Arab chick on a dating personals site and I'm still trying to get over how much fun we had. A friend of mine met her on Sunday and said that after meeting her, he was thinking about checking out an Arab dating site to see if he could find someone as beautiful as the gal I spent the weekend with. What an amazing beauty! I'll tell you, it's a really special thing to connect with someone the way I did with this gal.

Rich Single Women For A Man Of Average Means

Mon, 06 Oct 2008 02:55:06 -0500

If you're a man of average means attracted to success and looking for rich single women to date and maybe more, rest assured that they are out there, but making one your sweetie isn't exactly the easiest thing to do. Don't worry, though, while wealthy dating can be a tricky game, it's not exactly rocket science, unless, of course, you're trying to meet a well-off rocket scientist - then it very well could be.