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November 3, 2008
A Couple Of Dates With A Big Babe
In the last week I've gone on a couple of dates with a big babe that I've really enjoyed. A friend of mine had actually met her first by way of a BBW dating site. He liked her but felt like she and I might really hit it off, so in a wonderful display of selflessness he suggested I check out her profile and see if we could set up a date. Well, after seeing her profile, I was quite pleased at my friend's suggestion and contacted her right away.
I would say that for about a week we exchanged emails. It turned out that we have many of the same interests and agree on quite a few issues. Remarkably, we even have similar goals of things we might like to be doing in a few years, so it seemed obvious that we should at least get together and find out a little bit more.
When the day for the first date came, I was quite nervous, I have to say. I'm not all that good at first-date questions and sometimes a first meeting can be quite intimidating, especially when there has been as much expectation built up over a first encounter as this one had - at least in my mind. Nevertheless, it went quite well and after a little while we were starting to relax with each other. The fact that the big babe and I had a couple of drinks probably helped speed matters along.
Now, I'm not sure that I was expecting for this to be some kind of divine romance or not, but I was definitely expecting a little bit more from our encounter than what transpired. Even though we seemed so similar and quite compatible from our correspondence with each other, it was obvious after just two dates that there were not any sparks flying between us and that, at the most, we could expect to remain friends but nothing more would come of it. I guess that's just how it is in the dating world. I'm sure I'll have more dates with big babes and, who knows, maybe the next one will be "the one."
Posted by MarkJohn at November 3, 2008 2:58 AM
