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January 25, 2007
Accidentally In Love--AGAIN!
Well, he’s gone and done it again! This is the second time my hair stylist has left a salon on a moments notice because he fell for a girl in another city. Do you know how hard it is to find someone who can cut your hair and who you get along with? Sheeesh! I was talking about him today with some of the others at the shop and they were marveling at how quick he picked up and left. I wasn’t surprised, mind you. The first time he left in a week and took off to New York to become part of one of the hottest celebrity couples in the hair world. Now he’s in Montreal dating yet another beautiful stylist, after he, according to his coworkers, fell accidentally in love.
I fall into many things, but not love these days. It’s too painful for me. Some people can deal with it. They can live with the heartache and the pain they cause others. Not me. I used to be okay with it. You find someone and it feels good and you let nature take its course, but all the while you have one eye searching for the perfect fit—or the next quick hit. That was me at the age of 20. At 30, things have changed. There are no accidents. Love is hard to find. And diving into something simply because it feels good is usually more trouble than it’s worth.
Back to my hair dude, he has packed it up and headed to off to find love
everlasting—or at least that’s the hope. The idea of moving
everything you have is huge, although something tells me he has become quite
proficient at over the years. Is this new love an accident? I’d like to
think not. I’d like to think that he’s just seeking what he knows
is a truly special connection. If it isn’t, though, and he comes back
home with his tail between his legs, I am personally going to point and laugh.
Hey, love is one of the hardest things you have to deal with in life…
but so is finding a new stylist! ;)
Posted by CupidsReviews Doug at January 25, 2007 5:14 PM
