Cupids Dating Blog

I remember when I first started online dating. I had just come out of a serious relationship when my friends introduced me to online dating. I wish I had known of places like Cupids Reviews back then, but I was lucky that my guides knew some good places to point me. About a month after I started online, I met a girl. She was fantastic. She was vivacious, a little too flirtatious but a true joy to be around. Our biggest problem, or our saving grace, depending on whose side you’re looking from, was the age gap. There was over a decade between us. In my mind, this doomed us from the start. We dated for about a year, and despite the fact that I never dated or really chatted with anyone in that time, I was always on a dating site. I don’t know what she would have thought had she known, but I’ll ask her when we go out for drinks in the next couple of weeks. My spidey-senses tell me she really wouldn’t have cared. She had the boy-toy she wanted for a while. I was faithful. Still, there are many situations where this kind of setup just isn’t recommended—or appreciated!

It’s hard when you find that your girlfriend or boyfriend doesn’t want to stop popping onto dating sites. Some people may say they’re just visiting for fun or for the ego boost. That certainly may be, but is that the type of person you want to date? Why can’t they find something else that entertains them… like knitting or mowing the lawn? The fear, though, is that it could be a cover for those waiting for a better fish to come along. So what’s the cure for this problem? I see only one possible solution: true love.

I don’t know how you gauge true love or weigh and measure it. What I do know is that if the guy or girl who can’t pull themselves offline doesn’t believe in it, it is certainly time to pull the cord. For me, I’m waiting for that one special person to come my way. This could be the year I find true love and it find me. Time will tell. If my dating profile disappears, you’ll know.