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February 22, 2008
Beautiful Mistress Or Mistrustful Bitch?
Let's face it: mistresses have a bad reputation. But is the judgment justified? Sometimes a woman becomes a mistress by no fault of her own. There are hundreds of men out there who take off their wedding bands as soon as they enter the bar and never mention the wife or girlfriend waiting at home. The Internet has also helped facilitate attached men hiding their marital status. Just go to any sex dating site. Since those sites are catering specifically to casual sex, married men don't need to be worried about full disclosure. Once you make arrangements to meet, it's usually a wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am type of deal and not a wine-and-dine, let's tell each other our life stories kind of event. If the woman doesn't press the "is he or isn't he" question, she can become his beautiful mistress without even knowing it.
Of course, there are always those situations in which a woman knowingly begins a relationship with a man already in one. However, even though she's dating a married man she isn't married herself or even in a relationship. That makes only one person cheating, and that person (in this case, the man) is the only one accountable to someone else - not the mistress. Oh, sure, you're thinking that the mistress has to be held accountable for something. I think not. That's just jealousy talking.
In my opinion, it's easier for the wife or girlfriend to get angry at the beautiful mistress than it is to get mad at her man. Why? Well, if they are happy in their relationship (before they found out about the cheating, of course) then most wives and girlfriends don't want to lose their husbands or boyfriends and taking out all their anger on him might push him away or, worse, make him leave her for the other woman. It also makes for unwanted tension at home, especially if children are involved. They'd rather the humiliation of being cheated on than the feeling of being abandoned for something "better."
Cheating in relationships never makes for a happy union. We all hope to be with someone who is honest and trustworthy. However, I don't believe that a man cheats just for the sake of cheating. He was probably unsatisfied with his relationship way before that potential beautiful mistress walked into the picture.
Posted by Luloo at February 22, 2008 2:20 AM
Comments
Tell me about i alomost became one.... The guy is suppose to be the religous one of his platoon or whatever ...ha-ha! He took off his wedding band and he forgot to tell me he was married and had been for a long time,He came over....Never had sex with him Though and Thats good! He went to Iraq...I waited til i did some research of my own...Thanks to another military friend! anyway Come to find out this man Devin has alot of female..."friends" needless to say I am no longer one of em....
Posted by: Yvonne at March 28, 2008 1:05 AM
Your obviously a stupid wh**e who has never been cheated on by your husband of TEn years and all the time him telling you he loves YOU! Your a f***ing idiot.
Posted by: Claire at May 17, 2008 2:28 AM
