« Would you like a side of money, power or security with that? | Main | Love Letters: Too old fashined or right on the money? »

May 25, 2005

Catching that liar in a lie!

Bookmark This Page

Have you ever had a conversation with your “other” and had the feeling that under the lining of simple words and sad sentences that there was a big fat lie? I have. I hate it! I’m naturally a bit paranoid. I like to think of it as a “healthy dose,” but you’re more than welcome to disagree. What it comes down to is not feeling secure with the way someone has responded to my questions. Now I can put up and shut up or I can walk. Normally I’ll walk, because I think I’m a pretty good judge.

I have always paid close attention to people and have become a pretty good liar detector – not to be confused with lie detector, which, at last check, was a machine. I think that you can study to really hone your skills enough to the point where you won’t require someone strap that bastard of a boyfriend or goofball of a girlfriend to a computer to read between the lines and find the lies. Still, as confident as I am in my abilities, there are times I wish I had the real deal. Anyone have a spare lie detector they’re willing to part with? Didn’t think so . . .


I’m off to check Ebay!

Posted by CupidsReviews Doug at May 25, 2005 10:01 PM

Comments

yeah u know i feel the same way, i think i can catch my girlfriend lying to me and when i think she is. but when she still wont admit it, I'm not sure exactly what to think even after i have tons of evidence and good catches, The real deal would help.

Posted by: steve at September 11, 2007 2:23 PM

Hey Steve... I hear ya! Once the trust is gone, though, and it seems like it is, there's almost no reason to continue. Sure, the sex may be good and you feel comfortable with her, for the most part, but twenty years of always wondering just doesn't seem worth it to me. Tell her it's a trust issue, and whether or not she has or hasn't cheated is a subject that you can skate around. Trust becomes the central issue, and when it's not there, be it justified or not, it's often better to move on and find someone who doesn't make you doubt. Those people are out there. I've met some of them and they are wonderful...

Posted by: CupidsReviews Doug at September 12, 2007 9:03 AM

Post a comment




Remember Me?