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May 19, 2010
Cute Italian Girl In For An Unpleasant Surprise?
Thomas Jefferson once said, "Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom." When it comes to many things, it should also be the first thing to keep in mind when communicating with people on sex dating sites. A friend of mine has been dedicated to this one site for a couple of years now and he just met a cute Italian girl. He also just found out he has Herpes - and he has failed to mention this to her even though they've already set a date to hook up.
It's usually my policy never to meddle in other people's affairs, but there are exceptions to every rule. I understand it would be extremely difficult to summon the courage to tell this cute Italian girl his situation. I've known one other friend and she had the guts to tell her soon-to-be boyfriend right off the bat. He didn’t have Herpes, but they're extremely careful and always use protection. It's not something I would be willing to risk, but I'm happy they've worked something out. They've been together for two years now and they probably wouldn't have made it past the first couple of months had she not been honest.
Coming right out and telling this cute Italian girl that he has a fairly serious STD certainly isn't a good way to go about creating a great first impression online - or in person, but his refusal to not do so has me thinking it's time I out him and try to contact her to tell her. I couldn't live with myself if I didn't, but I don't want him to lose it on me as well and secretly rub his genitals all over my towel to get some very cruel revenge.
Which brings me to the next, obvious point: Why am I friends with this asshole anyway? In all other respects, he's a nice guy. Honesty in this situation is definitely one of the Top 10 Dating Rules. If he's not forthright with a stranger, then how can I expect honesty from him? Not only is it time to find his next potential victim, but it's also time to cut ties with the jerk altogether.
Posted by lucas at May 19, 2010 2:40 AM
