Cupids Dating Blog

Here's where I go from being honest to being brutally honest. Being a shy large guy, I figured "all I could score" were larger people like me. My goal upon first signing up was to find someone who was at most as heavy as I, twice as timid and therefore willing to put out. My best friend was practically a pornstar in those days (and actually a male stripper these days), so for some juvenile reason, I felt I had to keep up with his number of conquests. Being heavy set, I was ashamed of my body type and never realized that I simply didn't have to cram every coed I studied with.

Instead, I met Lucy. She wasn't a member of the site because she also assumed fat people can only date other overweight people. Instead, she saw herself as a powerful BBW beauty that guys who enjoy more cushion for the pushin' chase after. The fact that I came with a full keg instead of a six-pack never factored in for her as being because I was selling myself short. We both loved life, loved a good story and so what if our calories in were never greater than our calories out? Who wants to live to 100 if they have to do so without saturated and trans fats? I say bring on the whipped cream! Everybody knows it makes the berries taste better!

Her lust for life transformed me from a shy large man to an outgoing guy who's larger than life. With my new-found confidence, I quickly managed to find a job, study harder and acquire the self-belief I needed to match my buddy's number of conquests. I never bothered to try the latter, though. It's just not me. Like I said, I prefer quality over quantity and I found both in the hot BBW woman I was already dating.