April 30, 2008
Kissing Techniques For Breakups
When a relationship ends, one always hopes that one is able to part amicably with one's partner. There's nothing worse than a hard breakup with lots of drama that leaves both parties bitter and angry. I'm sure many of you have been through it, and I hope that you never have to go through it again. You might think that it's weird to talk about kissing techniques for the final kiss, but it might be worth thinking about. Then you can get on with things and check out some dating personals sites.
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February 11, 2008
Economical Date Ideas
You know, most of the time, when we hear the phrase 'economical dates,' we think either of the girl who has two drinks and gets drunk or the guy who takes you to McDonald's. But the truth is that economical date ideas can be the most fun, as long as you're dating someone else who likes to have as much fun as you do. Whether you meet someone through friends, at a club, or through dating personals there's lots of fun to be had.
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January 2, 2008
How To Find A Date
Sometimes it just isn't easy to find a date, but it isn't for lack of options. You can meet people almost anywhere and, even if your shy, dating personals are a great way to stick your neck out and get into the dating scene. That said, knowing where to find a date and knowing how to find a date are not at all the same kettle of fish.
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December 11, 2007
Easy Dater/ Easy Date: It Should Be That Simple
To my mind, the easy dater / easy date concepts go hand in hand. I don't really understand why people on dating personals make such a big deal about their "ideal dates." I mean, shouldn't the focus be on getting to know each other rather than making sure there are enough distractions so stave off awkwardness?
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November 23, 2007
Shall We Dance?
I wish I could dance. I can't, of course, but that doesn't stop me wishing. I don't know if you're a Frank Zappa fan, but if you ever heard the song "Dancin' Fool," you've had a musical description of what I would look like if I ever went near a dance floor. I think the song goes, "one of my legs' shorter than the other and both of my feets too long." Nope, I've really got no coordination or rhythm at all my friends. It's too bad, too, because the idea of working up a sweat on the dance floor with a beautiful lady sounds just as much fun as fitness dating.
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November 15, 2007
First Date Tips, In The Form Of Cautionary Tales
Sometimes I wonder if the inability to leave a positive image when making a first impression is a genetic trait or an affliction from the gods. It would be great if it was a clinical illness that had a name, like "bad-foot-forward disorder" or something. That way it wouldn't be my fault and there could be a whole dating personals section dedicated to people with the same problem. The long apologetic disclaimers that inevitably surface during the more trying moments of a botched date could just be assumed, ignored and, hopefully, overlooked.
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October 24, 2007
The Politics Of Picking A Date Movie
Ok, if you're trying to pick a date movie when you're going out with someone for the first time, your natural tendency is to try and find something you'll both like. It's natural for you to want things to go well and for you to want your date to have a good time. If she does, she'll just may end up liking you. Ideally, you and your date have enough common interests that finding something you both like won't be too hard. On the other hand, if you've been out a couple of times and you're pressed for a choice, one idea is to use the movie as a screening process. I'm not suggesting that you should ignore other people's tastes, but it's pretty common to see lists of movies in dating personals, so films must be important to people. It seems to me that, at the end of the day, you can say a lot about who you are by showing off what you like and explaining why you like it, even if it's a matter of disagreement.
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August 28, 2007
A Guy's Perspective on Women's Accessories
Women love accessories — purses, earrings, belts, and, most of all, shoes. But I think they've got it all wrong. These aren't the accessories that will impress a guy, well, unless he's gay (but in that case he's more interested in how your stilettos will look on him than how they look on you). So, let me give you a guy's perspective on women's accessories that are sure to draw attention to yourself.
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August 17, 2007
Four Important Kissing Tips
Congratulations, the fact that you're reading these kissing tips means you're on your way to becoming a better kisser. Kissing tip #1: Realize you can do better.
Now that you've made that first step, what's stopping you from swallowing your pride and opening yourself to revamping your whole approach to the perfect kiss. Whether you're a handsome guy or a lovely lady, whether you're straight or interested in gay dating, whether you like Asians, Italians, interracial dating or anything under the sun, the fundamentals are the same. So without further adieu...
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July 11, 2007
50 First Date Questions
Everybody knows that first impressions make the difference between a long lasting bond and a quick dismissal. That's not to say that first impressions are set in stone (and lord knows that former enemies can often become friends), but no one wants make an ass out themselves when they hook for the first time with their objects of affection. When it's time to make small talk, there's some first date questions which inevitably come up - some of them are cliche, some of them reflect a good conversation, and some questions should be avoided at all costs. Making chit chat is one of those dating essentials that one -has to cover if one wants move on up and above the first date jitters.
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January 5, 2007
The Secret to Relationship Articles
Way back when Cupids Reviews was in its infancy, back when I online dating was a secret only a few would share, part of my duties included building a database of relationship articles. This was an interesting task to undertake. I’ve had the pleasure of a number of relationships over the years and knew I could draw on those experiences to help me. But how on earth could I be expected to follow in the footsteps of the legendary love scribes of years gone by? I was also able to do some research from what others on the Net were writing, which I used as a guide in my struggles. It was during this research on relationships that I came across the secret to overcoming this daunting task…
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December 27, 2006
The Fine Art of Photo Dating
Does anyone really look at profiles when they’re looking to find a date online? I know I do, but the emails I get in my inbox seem to show that a lot people don’t. These emails ask questions that would have already been answered had they bothered to read the profile. It’s a small sign that people like picture-driven personal ads. It is through mastering the fine art of photo dating that singles really begin to reap the benefits of online dating.
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December 9, 2006
My Own Love Test
It’s great that we rate dating sites. Every day, I get to spend my time thinking about love and relationships. It’s given me a lot of time to mull over what’s right for me when it comes to my life. I’ve dated a lot over the years and I think I’m starting to get a real feel for the type of person I’m looking for. I put every person I see through a love test that has been designed by me, for me. It’s nothing that’s structured or written down on paper. It’s just something that happens automatically every time I venture out on a date. This is how the test goes...
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December 8, 2006
Dating and The Single Rose
Is there anything more romantic than a date that carries a lone rose? It is an iconic image that we’ve seen many times yet it never seems to loose its appeal. We’re in the business of knowing a thing or two about dating here at Cupids Reviews and it seems only fitting that we address what is one of the most significant signs of love: the single rose.
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December 6, 2006
Dating for Adult Singles
If there’s something we here at Cupids Reviews know about, it’s dating sites where single adults can look for love. There are so many out there that it makes having a competent guide almost necessary. Sure, you can look at the big names like Match and True, but there’s so much to know about each one. For example, you could spend your time setting up a profile and searching on Match but you will never be able to send or receive correspondence unless you pay for a membership. This is different than many other sites, such as Cupid.com (no, there’s no affiliation between us and them), which allow even those who are just browsing to be contacted by paid members. True.com also won’t allow contact between paid members, nor will it let you see when a member last logged in—at least not before you’ve paid. That makes it hard for adult singles to tell how busy the site is—a rather important point to consider when it comes to picking which dating sites you’re going to join.
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December 4, 2006
Online Dating Pictures
I’ve said it too many times to count: webcam pics alone aren’t good enough for your dating profile picture. Assuming you’re not trying to hide something, grainy shots only serve to cast doubt on your true appearance. They’re fine if you’re using them as supporting documentation, but the rest of society expects you to have great-quality shots. The technology is readily available so there’s no excuse not to use it.
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December 1, 2006
Confident Dating: How It Came to Pass
It wasn’t long ago that I was turning down kisses from dates because I lacked confidence in that most romantic of gestures. Well, at least 18 years doesn’t seem like that long ago… but perhaps it is! Back then, communication with the opposite sex, when any interest in love was involved, was an often grueling spectacle. Words didn’t flow from my lips in any orderly fashion and my tongue was tied on more than a few occasions, leading to disastrous results. I was the dating equivalent to a bull in a china shop. Whatever the case, there has always been something that’s fascinated me: how is it that you learn to date with confidence?
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November 27, 2006
So You're Writing An Online Dating Profile
I tend to go on about how online dating is a numbers game here at Cupids Reviews. The more you see, the more chance of finding that perfect connection. Likewise, the more people that see you, the better your chances at scoring the man or woman of your dreams. The number of profile views aside, there are other things that can help your piece of digital real estate stand out from others, but none is as powerful as that of positive words.
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November 22, 2006
Creating A Great First Impression Online
Wow, there are a whack of dating profiles online! I’ve read a bunch of them, both from men and women, and I’ve always thought that people should work harder at the profiles they put out there. After all, it’s a digital first impression, and we all know how important those are supposed to be. I’ve often offered help to those in need, but now I’m not so sure that helping someone with writing their dating profile is such a good idea.
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November 5, 2006
Want To Meet A Wealthy Man?
When it comes to online dating, I am happy to go on record as suggesting that sex sites are a huge sucker’s play for men seeking women. Sure, women like sex, but not the way that some of the biggest sex sites out there sell it. If your adult dating site looks like an ad from Hustler, chances are it is an ad for Hustler—or another adult entertainment company looking to cash in on normal male urges. However, there is also a huge sucker’s play out there for women. If you’ve ever been on a dating site and received a note suggesting that some rich bachelor is waiting for you in some exclusive dating service, you already know what I’m talking about.
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October 29, 2006
Tales of Drunk Dialing
We’ve all done it. We have all felt the repercussions, as well. One minute you’re enjoying a nice beverage, or seven, the next you’ve picked up your cell phone and find yourself calling someone who means a great deal to you. You didn’t stop to think what time it was or if it may or may not be an appropriate moment to ring. It probably didn’t even cross your mind that your speech was slightly slurred or that your mind wasn’t reacting as lightning-fast as usual. All that mattered was that you felt the need to communicate and that moment was the time to start drunk-dialing!
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October 22, 2006
Feeling the Love: One Path of Life
I’ve been single for about five years now and I still haven’t found true love, but I have been dating as regularly as any one man should. What I have found is that I may only have one date a year where there’s even a tingle of something special. It’s this feeling that I chase after, day after day, on online dating sites. It’s that feeling that I think everyone should be chasing after if they really expect to find true love.
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October 18, 2006
The Single Best Dating Site Is...
Well, ladies and gentlemen, you may or may not have been aware that we here at Cupids have been busy creating a new ratings criteria that should help singles find the best dating sites. We’ve gone through our list of close to 150 sites and rated them based on new criteria. And we’ve found that the best dating sites for singles are…
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October 11, 2006
Picking A Love Machine
It sounds like something out of a sci-fi movie of old. Scientists from the far-distant future have toiled away in a secret lab for years on end and have finally produced a contraption that will make romance easy and available to all who wish to use its powers. Well, that love machine is finally here, but will you take a spin on it?
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October 9, 2006
Finding Quality Internet Dating Sites
It’s not easy finding romance, even with all of the matchmaking services you find online today. I hear it from one single after another: how come I’ve been online for so long and I’m still searching? Some people point to the portals themselves saying dating sites don’t work. Here, I have to disagree…
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September 13, 2006
Dating the Stranger
How do you feel about the first conversation or meeting you have with a stranger you’ve met online? Are you one of those people who thrive on the excitement of putting chemistry to the test? Or perhaps you fear it, much like some fear public speaking? I always thought it funny that people generally fear public speaking more than death, but isn’t meeting a stranger for coffee -- or even just chatting on the phone -- a little like getting on stage and being put in the spotlight?
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August 8, 2006
How Not to Break Up with Someone
I recently was dumped, which is a good thing, considering it needed to end. Nevertheless, it ended in a very awkward and uncomfortable way. I feel somewhat compelled based on the experience to suggest how things might have been handled better.
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July 19, 2006
The Best Advice to Never Take
I tried therapy once and found myself thinking in the third person detached from feeling while rationally seeking truth by not reacting emotionally. The universe slowly began to revolve around the person inside my head rather than the human I really was outside my heart. Maybe I just had a bad therapist.
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March 20, 2006
Terrible Dating Profiles
It never ceases to amaze me how many people just SUCK at writing profiles! You hear all of this backlash against online dating – about people not having any success. In many cases, half the problem is that people don’t put the energy into it!
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November 25, 2005
VOIP Over Distances
Bad things happen to relationships and experiencing physical distance is certainly one of them. I had a relationship that started when I was working on the other side of the country. I knew I was coming back home in a certain amount of time and that relationship was going to be put under stress. It certainly wasn’t easy, but we knew there was an end in site that made the time apart bearable.
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November 11, 2005
The Piano Playing Banker
I’ve got a friend who was on American Singles for a while. She was telling me this story of this guy she met about a month ago who was this big investment banker in New York. He was quite a talented bloke – painted and wrote poetry in his spare time and played the piano pretty well. She went out a few times with him. They did the traditional stuff – went to a coffee shop, then to an exhibit at a gallery and then out for dinner another night.
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November 9, 2005
A Near Miss - Body Worlds 2
I nearly made what could have been a huge mistake this past weekend. I was planning a first date with this girl I met online. From my experience, a museum or an exhibit is the perfect place for a first date. You get the chance to chat and walk and have a bunch of things around you that you wouldn’t normally be able to see. Well, it just so happens that there is this great exhibit that’s getting tons of press down at the Science Center called Body Worlds 2.
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October 26, 2005
Spinning!
I met a girl on Lavalife the other night. She works for a gym and teaches spinning. I’ve seen the classes – or rather heard them before I saw them – and they always looked interesting. I’ve been going to the gym for about three years now but I’ve never done anything else besides lift weights. Yet out of all the classes that they offer, spinning seemed the most interesting.
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October 21, 2005
Yahooooo!
When it comes to free access and dating sites, I just don’t get why people would even join a site that doesn’t allow you to see a full profile or be able to see when each member last logged on. It just doesn’t seem to make any sense to me. I can understand it if you didn’t know any better about dating sites. That would be easy to explain. But knowing what else is out there certainly makes choices easy for someone like me.
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September 19, 2005
A Big Squeeze
Part of the problem I have with long distance dating is that in those hours of need – the ones that really matter – you can’t be close with the one that means the most. Sometimes all you really needs is a hug or a shoulder to cry on. Knowing that all you need is something so small can make the distance even worse to deal with. I know there are lots of ways that people can make the connection without being there in person.
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August 26, 2005
What Women Want?
You may have heard the figures that came out of a recent Playgirl magazine survey about what women find attractive in a man. First off, I thought the majority of the readers of Playgirl were men, but I admit I often don’t know my arse from a hole in the ground.
Anyway, this survey suggests the majority of women are looking for men who are scruffy and a chubby. 42% said they thought love handles were kind of sexy while 47% liked chest hair.
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August 23, 2005
A Moment in Time
I’ve lived a lucky life, full of magical romances with great people. Although they have all come to pass, and for good reason, they will always remain special to me in some way. This past weekend I was with an ex of mine who I met and dated, if you can call it that, sometime when I was around 12 years old. It was my first year of high school and I met her through a friend who went to one of the local schools – I decided to attend a school in a different city.
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July 11, 2005
Toronto Tour
I recently did a tour of Toronto on this Hop-on-hop-off bus tour they have. It’s what the visitors do when they come to town to see the city. I went with a friend who is in town from Australia. It was really nice. I hadn’t been out in a wile and I certainly hadn’t one anything like that. Although it would be hard to call the day out a date, it kind of felt like one.
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July 6, 2005
Negative Anchors
Ever find yourself in a relationship situation where you’re supposed to do something fun with the person you love but you just can’t seem to feel as good as you should about it? What might be at fault is that you’ve tied negative anchors to it.
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July 5, 2005
Knowledge
You ever look around at people who are doing something really well and wish you could be doing the same thing? How about this: have you ever learnt something, a skill or a game, and when you learnt it, you realized that despite how difficult you thought it was before, it was now a lot easier because you understood it? The secret to life – this life -- is knowledge.
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May 26, 2005
Love Letters: Too old fashined or right on the money?
Today I did a piece on writing a love letter. While doing some research, I came across a site that had a different take on writing love letters.
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May 4, 2005
Fake Profiles - ARGH!
Ever send a sign of interest to someone online only to wonder why they don’t reply even after they returned your sign of interest and you spent the money trying to contact them? I do. My paranoia, healthy or not, has led me to strict rules about the way I contact people online.
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