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July 29, 2005
Drinks WIth The Ex
I went out last night for drinks with my ex girlfriend. It’s something that we do every so often – just to catch up. It’s really nice chatting and going over the memories . . . well, the good ones, at least!
I have a few ex’s like that. The problem is, though, that they all have significant others. Most are married. I’m happy that they’ve found other people, but I know that their partners don’t have a clue that they’re out with me. And even worse, if they did know, they wouldn’t be happy. The problem I have is that if all these people hang out with their ex’s, what does this say about any relationship I’m in?
Posted by CupidsReviews Doug at July 29, 2005 11:48 AM
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HEY YOU!
If you had a read of my site you will see that i have been CRAZY busy! I was happy to see you stopped by and commented today! I feel like it's been ages :) Anyways, suggestion.. why don't you ask these "ex's" what their reasoning would be to not tell their current spouses/boyfriends/girlfriends that they are having a drink with an ex? If there is a problem, then perhaps their partners, nor themselves, are not secure enough with themselves? I never worry about the influence of others, I concern myself with how much I trust "MY" partner. If I can't trust them to have a drink with an ex and catch up, why am I with them? Just a thought....
Not sure it says anything about you.... mostly about them and their current relationships I think..
Posted by: shelley at July 29, 2005 6:39 PM
Good point Shelley! Although, I'm affraid the general consensus might be that people on the whole are generally insecure. Still I'll put this to them next time I see them!
Posted by: Doug at August 1, 2005 11:59 PM
