Cupids Dating Blog

He contacted me just the other day because he was finally convinced that breaking it off was the only way to stop her, but it turns out she has managed to continue hurting his feelings despite the fact that the two are no longer a couple. It all started when he began seeking a little alone time or a night or two with his buddies. She never understood why he needed to be left alone or just to have a chill night with the guys. As a result, things got really out of hand. She began telling her friends he was terrible in bed (which she soon started saying right to his face) and that he would never find a decent job.

The only experience I really have with abusive relationships is that my mother used to tell me I would never make it in life. After a few years of that, I simply cut her out of my life, but with this guy, it isn't his first time going out with control freaks or just plain mean women who seem to love taking advantage of the fact that he's kind-hearted and won't make an effort to retaliate and make her feel bad about herself.

To be exact, this is the sixth chick this year who has been unbelievably mean to him and I can't help but wonder if he's simply attracted to women of this type. If that is in fact the case, I'm going to have to tell him to keep his sob stories to himself - not to mention that he has to stop contacting the ex. After all, if someone goes out time and time again seeking abusive relationships of some sort, they have no right to complain, but I just don't have the heart to tell him to shut up about it.