Cupids Dating Blog

I stumbled across a glorified self-help video a few months back called, rather interestingly, The Secret. A bunch of “guru’s”--some self-help coaches, metaphysicists and quantum physicists--are interviewed for it and they talk about the law of attraction. Basically stated, you search out and surround yourself with whatever you focus on. I think it’s an interesting idea. Applied to love, we have a choice to accept various people into our lives. Some people are just great people. You find yourself with them and think, Why shouldn’t I spend my life with this person? They’re A, B and C, and that must make them someone I should attach myself to, because everyone knows A, B and C are great qualities. I’ve been lucky enough to accept many people with a lot of great qualities into my life. I’ve been on dates with many more that fit the bill. These days, though, despite this, I still aim to attract something more. I need that feeling of love, and I won’t accept anything less, but that feeling just isn’t easy to find. As I said, I’m lucky if I catch a glimpse of it even once a year.

I’m not anyone qualified to coach anyone else on love and relationships. My job consists of rating dating sites for Cupids Reviews. I don’t have any degrees or fancy titles that could somehow persuade a single soul. What I do have is 30 years of experience dealing with many different people and a viewpoint that is the accumulation of all those connections. That being said, my point is this: I believe, most passionately, that everyone needs to search for that love that keeps them up at night, that stirs their dreams and gets them out of bed every morning with a smile on their face. Without that feeling, life just isn’t being lived to the fullest. We all have the power of choice to determine who we seek out and who we accept as our mate. I search for true, earth-moving love. What is it that you’ll be searching for? The choice is yours…