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August 17, 2007
Four Important Kissing Tips
Congratulations, the fact that you're reading these kissing tips means you're on your way to becoming a better kisser. Kissing tip #1: Realize you can do better.
Now that you've made that first step, what's stopping you from swallowing your pride and opening yourself to revamping your whole approach to the perfect kiss. Whether you're a handsome guy or a lovely lady, whether you're straight or interested in gay dating, whether you like Asians, Italians, interracial dating or anything under the sun, the fundamentals are the same. So without further adieu...
Kissing Tip #2: It's all about sensitivity
Kissing is all about connecting with another person. This means being sensitive to the other person. I can't emphasize this enough. The worst kiss happens when you go in thinking only about yourself and what you want. The worst is when the other person repeats the same motion of sticking their tongue in and out of your mouth again and again. This gets boring after about 15 seconds but they have no idea because they don't care how much pleasure the other person is getting out of the experience.
Don't go in thinking you're a great kisser and you know what the other person wants. Every one is different so learn to adapt. It doesn't have to be the first kiss to have enthusiasm and exciting energy. Even if you've been kissing each other for a while, try something new. Explore the other person's mouth by trying new speeds, motions and levels of force. But pay attention to the other person's reaction and give them what they love. Sometimes I find I have to close my eyes so I can focus my concentration on the sense of touch to feel what the other person is feeling.
Kissing Tip #3: Make it last
If you want passion and romance, you have to make the time for it. The same goes for good kissing. If you think of kissing as merely foreplay to the main event (aka sex), it will never reach its full potential. There's a whole range of kisses you can take advantage of.
There's the soft but sensual feeling of your breath before your lips have even embraced. There's sexy teasing of the tongue as it slightly emerges from your lips. Switch attention to different parts of their lips so they don't know what to expect, but take it slow. Taking the time to make the kind of kiss that dreams are built on will make them feel special, not to mention it will drive them wild with suspense as you build up to the intense French kissing that will knock them off their feet.
Kissing Tip #4: Kisses aren't limited to the mouth
You've come this far and there's a lot more to learn, but I don't want to overwhelm you. I'll leave you with one more thing to contemplate. Although the first thing we all think about when it comes to kissing is two lips coming together, there's so much more territory to be explored.
Some of the most sensual places on a person's body are the sides of their neck leading down to their protruding shoulder blades and the firm yet smooth skin forming a soft curve of their check bone. Okay, I admit, these are some of my personal favorites, but you get the idea. There's a whole body to discover. If you're sensitive enough to take the time to find all those special places, the person on the receiving end of your efforts will never want it to end.
Posted by Glen at August 17, 2007 2:00 AM
