September 1, 2010
My Best Friend's Sweet Lesbian Lover
My best friend is 6'0" tall and blessed with a large chest. She's got shoulder-length blonde hair, dazzling blue eyes and warm smile that could melt your heart. Tack on an hourglass figure, amazing sense of humor and a great personality and you get one gorgeous gal who's beautiful both on the inside and on the outside. So why aren't I dating her myself, you ask? That's because being a guy, great as I am, doesn't exactly appeal to a sweet lesbian like her. That or how I'm a total cheapskate (probably both).
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November 11, 2009
Where Are All The Committed Gay Men?
For years now, my gay friend has been complaining about how he can never seem to find a long-term partner on the various gay dating sites he peruses. Every time he meets someone he's interested, it turns out to be a one-night stand at worst or a three-month tryst at best. Oddly, this isn't the first guy who has bemoaned that it's difficult for gay men to find a meaningful relationship. As much as I would like to help, I'm pretty out of touch with the gay community, so I can only work with broad generalizations and stories from my gay friends.
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October 28, 2009
Experimenting With An Older Gay Guy
For years I've known this older gay guy and for the first month or so of knowing him, he was constantly hitting on me until he finally got the point that I wasn't interested in dating him, let alone any sort of casual sex. The reason I kept hanging out with him is because he's just such an awesome guy. When he finally got the message, our friendship went on as normal and we really found a connection. He would always tell me about his experiences with guys he met on gay dating sites and I would confide in him about my relationship problems. We were perfectly comfortable talking about this stuff, so our friendship was really solidifying.
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August 24, 2009
The Beautiful Gay Girl In Our Office
I arrived to work early one day and I had the chance to chat with Marjorie, our 19-year-old lunch lady. We talked mostly about how much we're looking forward to a relaxing weekend until we started talking about our love lives. I talked about how excited I am to bring my girl to what my buddies and I call "videogame night" and she talked about how pissed she is that her lover had canceled their plans to go hiking. I did advise her to dump "him" until she corrected me and said that her lover is actually a girl. It turns out that our beautiful lunch lady is actually a beautiful gay girl.
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August 14, 2009
Just Because He Says He's A Gay Hottie Doesn't Mean He Is One
One of my closest gay friends broke up with his boyfriend last Saturday, so my girlfriend and I spent most of yesterday in his apartment trying to comfort him. I've had friends who have broken up with their partners who were easier to console than this one. It wasn't because they simply grew apart. It wasn't just that his ex cheated on him. It was because his ex only hooked up with him so he could get some of his money while he cheated behind his back. We all knew he was dating a gay hottie, but what we didn't know is that that hottie was actually straight and he used our friend for easy cash.
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July 31, 2009
What To Do When You Have A Lesbian Girlfriend?
Anyone reading this may wonder why I would advertise the fact that I had a lesbian girlfriend. It's not exactly something that would seem to reflect positively on me, but that's why I think it's necessary to explain how a situation like this can turn out. Now, I have no idea where she found this girl she ended up being more than friends with, but I don't think it was on a gay dating site. If that were the case, I may have felt more offended because she knew she had a desire to be with other women and was actively seeking out lesbian relationships.
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July 3, 2009
Is There Such A Thing As A Lesbian Man?
The Internet is a pretty useful tool when it comes to finding information on just about everything. Some of the stuff you'll see can be very interesting, some is amusing and there are times when you come across something that's downright confusing. For me, finding a male profile in a lesbian dating site belongs to the latter. This was the first time I encountered a guy, claiming to be a lesbian guy, looking for a pretty lesbian girl for a long-term relationship. It makes me wonder. Is there really such a thing as a lesbian man? If there is, how do you define what a lesbian man really is?
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March 16, 2009
Close Encounter With Sexy Lesbian Babes
Life can be very unfair sometimes. I've been putting myself out on the dating scene for quite a while and lately, I have been having more misses than hits. Just like it says in an old country song, the good ones are already taken. It's either that or they're just not interested in men and are more into lesbian dating. It's bad enough that other single guys are vying for the attention of pretty beautiful girls, now I have to compete with sexy lesbian babes as well.
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March 2, 2009
Hot Gay Men All Around
Someone sent me a funny video about a couple of straight guys discovering their hidden gay tendencies the other day and I can't stop laughing even after watching it a couple of times more. It was hilarious and at the same time, it made me think about how much our perception of gay men have changed over the years. Today, the stereotypical effeminate gay man in women's clothes are now outnumbered by gay men, who just look like everyone else. When you take a look at gay dating personals, you can be sure that the good-looking men in the pictures are actually gay and looking for a same sex significant other.
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January 28, 2009
Gay Singles Need Not Worry
I was having a cup of coffee the other day and I can't help but overhear the conversation going on at the next table. It was just some mundane blabbering but what really caught my attention was a prejudicial comment about how can the gay population keeps on growing, even though gay men don't give birth. You and I both know you don't have to be gay to have gay kids. Nevertheless, it got me to thinking about the experience of gay singles looking for love online and the proliferation of gay dating sites.
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January 1, 2009
Get Your Hands Off Gay Love
With the recent elections, there was not only a historic and incredibly groundbreaking race for the Presidency that included the oldest nominee, the first African-American and the first female nominee for Vice-President, there were also several measures that were to be voted upon. One of the most prevalent in the media was Proposition 8, which was the proposition to overturn gay marriage laws in California and other states. Incredibly, the proposition passed and gay love is once again at risk. It's amazing to me that this could happen. Maybe if some of the voting public spent more time at gay dating sites, this might not have happened.
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December 11, 2008
My Lesbian Girlfriend
"I'm a lesbian trapped in a man's body." Yeah, you've probably heard that line before and you've probably heard it more than once, too. Each time you hear some joker telling it, they always act like they're being so original and creative like it's the first time you've heard it. That joker was me a few years ago, but then things changed and it's all due to my lesbian girlfriend. No, I hadn't been trying out my luck on lesbian dating services for the hell of it and struck gold and no I'm not kidding, but yes, it is an interesting tale.
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September 10, 2008
Cute Lesbian Girl Also Finds Herself Barking Up Wrong Tree
Obviously, I'm not a cute lesbian girl. I do love women, but apparently that isn't enough. After spending centuries trying to ensure that everyone has the same rights regardless of birth, I am still excluded from the club because of the trivial fact that I'm a man. I'm joking, of course. I'm just trying to point out that I really have no conception of what it must be like to be a lesbian. On the other hand, when I'm frustrated with the dating scene and trying to read women's minds, the friends I have with the most sympathetic ears tend to be lesbians, so I figure we do have a little in common. The main difficulty with meeting people, as I see it, is finding other people who are actually looking. If you're a gal looking to meet another gal then lesbian dating sites are the way to go.
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August 6, 2008
The Start Of A Beautiful Gay Relationship
It's pretty common for a dating site to let you select what kind of relationships you're looking to find. You can pick your interests, so whether someone is looking for a new and beautiful gay date or they're trying to meet a beautiful black woman, you can filter the members and find someone who suits your tastes. That said, of course, different sites cater to different groups of people with different objectives, so picking the right site for you can be important part of the process when looking to meet someone. There are a lot of gay dating sites out there that will make your search a lot easier.
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June 9, 2008
A Search For A Lesbian Beauty
One of my best friends is a lesbian. I never really take that into account; I just know that she's my friend. The only people that seem to have an opinion about it are her parents, but she's gotten over that. She's been single for a long time and lately she's been telling me she would really love to find a lesbian beauty. I suggested she try one of the many lesbian dating sites that are available these days.
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May 14, 2008
Find A Gay Cutie Online
A friend of mine has been looking to meet a gay cutie with whom he can settle down and start a long-term relationship. I gave him the same advice I give to pretty much everyone who's having trouble finding that special someone - the Internet is really a good place to start. In his case, I suggested some gay dating sites like Gay.com.
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April 14, 2008
Apparently, Lesbian Relationships Are Complicated Too
If you pay attention to the kind of advice people give on dating, you generally find a lot of commentary on just how different men and women are. Given that the inability to communicate across the gender gap is what people think causes most of the problems then you'd think that, say, lesbian relationships would be simpler. I'm sure this won't actually be news to anyone, but that is simply not the case. The days that I'm having trouble figuring out women, my lesbian friend tends to have the most sympathetic ear for my problems. She's recently started using a lesbian dating site because she thinks it'll give her the opportunity to find someone with whom she can actually communicate.
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January 26, 2008
Plump Gay Men Take Over!
It's Gay Pride Week here in this anonymous city in which I live (for the sake of this blog, we'll call this city "Cupidia"). There's a massive gay population here in Cupidia - in fact, the gay neighborhood (for the sake of this blog, we'll call this area the "Gayborhood") has a level of prominence and mainstream acceptance that it appears on government maps and tourist brochures. One of the many, many large events in this celebration of gayness is the Gay Pride Parade, featuring the kind of insane costumes, over-the top camp, and embodiments of physical perfection that you would expect from these festivities. The last little bit has always bugged me a little - I can understand why the gay community would want to put their best foot forward and show off the hottest guys and gals that money can buy, but where are the plump gay guys (and gals)? I refuse to believe that every gay man on this planet looks like a model for Abercrombie and Fitch.
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December 13, 2007
Where Are The Best Gay Babes?
One of my very best friends is a lesbian. She always has been and has never gone through that period of denial that so many others do. That means she's never had to date people of the opposite sex to prove anything to herself or to others. She's been single for a while now, she's grown tired of the bar scene and she's starting to wonder where the best gay babes are. I've recommended she start checking out some lesbian dating sites and I'm really hoping that it's going to pay off for her.
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November 19, 2007
Hypocritical Interracial Gay Couples
Why is it that every time I see an interracial gay couple, the white guy is always older and the non-white guy is always in better shape? This frustrates me to no end because of the double standard that's being practiced within the gay community. We all agree it's wrong that queers are discriminated against by the heterosexual powers that be, but for some reason equality doesn't apply to race when gay dating is concerned.
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September 17, 2007
Searching for Lesbian Dream Girls?
I overheard a co-worker discuss the representation of lesbians in romantic movies/TV shows/ etc, and he felt that lesbians didn't get a fair portrayal. Lesbians were either represented by hetero pop fantasies (the curse of the lipstick lesbians), or portrayed as grunting behemoths. Hetero versions of lesbians aren't likely to be fair and balanced, but do hetero fantasies consist solely of the mythical lipstick lesbian? lesbian dream girls can be pretty hard to define (or find for that matter). Are lesbian fantasies solely limited to scantily-clad underwear models having pillow fights? Lesbian dating sites should give most people a clue, but unfortunately realistic portrayal s of lesbians often fall on deaf ears.
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August 29, 2007
Looking For Lesbian Dating Sites
As anybody who's ever taken a glance at our website before knows, the niche dating sites are rapidly changing the whole landscape of the singles scene. It used to be that singles bars covered all the bases - every conceivable category of singledom probably had a bar/club/restaurant somewhere. Now the online equivalents are coming up and letting a lot of people who had no interest in setting foot in a typical meat market connect with fun, exciting singles on the interweb. The GLBT community has really taken to this new phenomenon, and the possibilities for online encounters are incredibly diverse. Lesbian dating sites are just as prevalent as their gay equivalents, and there's a whole lot of variety to choose from when exploring the online lesbian dating scene.
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August 27, 2007
Sweet Gay Guys Like It Slow
So I'm supposed to write about how to date a sweet gay guy. Does such a thing exist? Maybe I'm too jaded. Okay, let me take a deep breath and remember the wise words of gay dating advice from a great fag hag I know. "When you meet someone new, forget everything who know and everything you've experienced and start completely fresh with that person." In other words, don't pile your old baggage on the new guy. He may very well be the sweet guy you've always been looking for.
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July 25, 2007
Great Gay Personals
Obviously, not everyone is necessarily looking for a relationship with a gay, bisexual or transgender man or woman. However, I would have to say from having reviewed web personals sites targeted towards such an audience, along with others that may have had a more heterosexual consumer base in mind, sites such as Gay.com really do a great job at delivering more than your standard dating site does. It's truly a multifaceted experience.
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July 12, 2007
Gay Women Seeking Men: Truth Or Fiction
A while ago (well, months and months ago), everybody's favorite gay columnist Dan Savage talked about the latest trend with the gay population - having hetero sex. Apparently getting it on with members of the opposite gender doesn't mean you're straight (although it does beg the question of why people would even bother using gay/straight/bi labels in the first place). Yep, it looks like hetero sex is the new black, it's trendier than Pug dogs, Starbucks and iPods combined. I wonder, however, just how many ads there are out there for gay women seeking men - I haven't seen any in the gay dating sites, and rest assured they're pretty scarce in the straight dating sites as well. It makes me wonder if Dan Savage is blowing smoke out his rear as usual, or if there's any truth to his claims.
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May 13, 2007
Your favorite gay tease
You've seen 'em on the tv shows, you've heard them on the radio. They're called gay boyfriends, and they've been the platonic standbys for women for as long as anybody can remember. The gay best friend is almost stereotypical, and a quick glance at some of the TV shows in the best few years should indicate the typical features - effeminate, weirdly nonsexual guys and their sassy gal pals. However, I've witnessed a couple of platonic friendships like these fall apart, and it's usually because of one question - What if the feelings run deeper, at least as far the girl is concerned? Gay dating is pretty easy to do when you're another gay guy, but what about the hetero best friends who wind up being attracted to their sassy best friend? A gay tease can be awfully irritating when the expectations are raised.
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June 23, 2006
Gay Dating on Pride Weekend
Do you have any idea what day it is? I know you’re all scratching your heads and wondering, or coming up with answers that although good, probably aren’t what I had in mind--unless you live in Toronto and happen to be gay. For the record, I’m as straight as the arrow soars, but this is my favorite party weekend of the year. There are two party days I don’t miss: New Years and Pride Parade Sunday.
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January 3, 2006
Finding Gay Friends
I’ve been rambling on as of late about the Friend Finder network of sites. It saddens me to say that Gay Friend Finder is no different than the rest. Sure, it may not be as expensive as some of the other Friend Finder sites, but it is probably more expensive than it’s worth. I just can’t stomach a site that won’t let you view profiles! I think the whole Friend Finder team, regardless of sex or sexual orientation, should be locked in a room and sprayed with cold water from a fire hose until they come to their senses.
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