Cupids Dating Blog

I don't even know how to get over someone when it actually ends badly. I mean, you can be happy something has ended, but I don't know how to be indifferent to someone with whom I was close. Funnily enough, though, I find it easier to get over something that turned out horribly than relationships that end amicably. Actually, the worse thing for me is a relationship that didn't even get the chance to begin.

Some people are always meeting people they connect with and it's only a matter of finding someone with whom they're really compatible. My problem is that it's really rare that I meet a girl with whom I feel a real connection. I meet people I like, but that feeling of real understanding I find constantly elusive. The thing is that no matter how valuable that discovery might be it doesn't mean that it coincides with good timing. That's just one of the dangers of dating I guess, but I find it hard to contend with.

What do you do when you meet a gal that you could fall for in 10 seconds flat and then find out that she is leaving in a week and won't be back for almost a year? I mean, seriously, a long distance love affair is barely supportable when you've been with someone for a long time. Two people that just met can't expect each other to put their romantic lives on hold for a year so they can see, then, if things would actually work between them.

In one sense, I know being broken up over this is absurd. I'm upset about something that didn't happen and that might not have worked anyway. Still, I can't explain how much this beautiful angel of a woman has managed to affect me in the short time since we met.

I literally don't know what it means to "get over" someone. You meet people, they have an impact on your life and it seems disrespectful to try to forget that impact, and not feeling the loss when you're aware of it is impossible, at least for me. The world keeps turning and each day brings new things, but if somone matters at all, something new just isn't necessarily enough to counterbalance the loss.

I guess I'm being a little too down on things. I suppose the fact that I managed to meet someone so impressive should give me hope even if it isn't a perfect scenario.