Cupids Dating Blog

Obviously, in order to capture the most interest online one has to go about things differently. It's not like meeting at a party or a pub. In both cases however, crafting a first impression is the most important thing to work on. If you're looking for some casual sex, this can be extremely difficult. If you're not looking for a second date - you have to woo her right off the bat in order to hit a home run. There's one basic technique I've found worked quite well in the past.

Acting as if you're not in any way interested in sex is one way to go, but it can be hit or miss. When you first meet a chick, regardless of whether you're looking for a one-night-stand or not, it's imperative to discuss innocent basics. That said, don't dominate the discussion! This is a major dating faux pas. While you shouldn't just stand their mute, everybody loves talking about themselves, so prompting her with questions about herself is a great way to show you're interested.

Once you've met with her face to face and have her talking, another way to capture the most interest from her is always making direct eye contact. I've actually looked this up and psychologically, it actually creates a sense of intimacy. When it's about that time to end the conversation, wait as long as possible for her to suggest a date or offer her phone number. If it's really late and she's planning on walking home alone, offer to walk her home because you want to make sure she's safe. Once she gets the impression you're an innocuous guy, there's little doubt she'll ask you to come inside and you're pretty much set for some casual sex.