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July 20, 2009
How To Seduce Wealthy Women
Regardless of whether you have money in the bank or you're in the red, you may find it difficult to seduce wealthy ladies. Assuming they're single, these women are likely very autonomous go-getters who have climbed the business and financial ladders, so your account balance probably won't be enough to woo her. Of course, you can check out a number of wealthy dating sites. There's no doubt you will find rich women, but I think most would agree the real trick is figuring which of them are willing to date a guy with a light wallet.
If you're reading this, I'm guessing you're not necessarily Mr. Money Bags, so I'll focus on single guys who aren't particularly affluent men. In case you're wondering, I've been lucky enough to seduce wealthy women in the past and have done my fair share of research on the subject and picked up some good tips along the way. However, luck is certainly not the only factor when it comes to picking up rich ladies. There are a number of things to keep in mind when chatting with a woman on dating sites or approaching them in other "offline situations" that can really affect your chances of success.
The number one no-no I've come across is what I like to refer to as the "financial inadequacy syndrome." Unfortunately, this seems to affect many men and it's certainly understandable. In general, situations tend to arise whereby you may feel rich single women you just met outshine you in the dollar department. So, the first thing you should remember if you want to seduce wealthy ladies is this: under no circumstances should you outwardly display any sense of inadequacy - this is a huge turn-off. Just ask any woman, rich or poor. While a "thank you" and "I very much appreciate the dinner" is just fine, don't overdo it to the point where you sound like a broke, broken record.
Second, whether a woman is wealthy or not, almost every female you meet will tell you personality usually trumps good looks and bank statements. The girl I was with for years always made more money than me. I certainly suffered from the financial inadequacy syndrome, but according to her, it made no difference because I was sensitive, thoughtful and generally charming. Not to toot my own horn, but I think this can make a world of difference if you meet a woman who isn't strictly into wealthy guys. Money becomes a moot point when you pay attention to what she says and feels and have a genuine interest in her personal passions and hobbies.
Granted, some guys may find it difficult to seduce wealthy women. From personal experience, speaking with rich single women looking for a date and checking out a number of sites that provide tips on the subject, your best bet is to avoid looking for an affluent woman who is just a "material girl living in a material world" and seek out down-to-earth ladies who don't have an issue with your financial standing.
Posted by lucas at July 20, 2009 2:13 AM
