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August 30, 2006
Inbox: Penis Pictures!
What is it with guys sending pics of their genitals to women on dating sites? Now I've seen my share of penis pics, but only while reviewing sex dating sites and gay dating sites. I don’t know if there’s a single girl who I’ve spoken to who hasn’t gotten some special deliveries in their mailbox at some point in time. It’s so rampant that I’m starting to feel I’m missing out on something…
I had a conversation recently with someone rather new to the online dating thing. She had friends who had made some good connections online and a couple of couples even got married. Imagine that! So here she is, recently single and looking to experience all that online dating has to offer. And what is she greeted by? Pictures of naked men begin to fill her inbox! Now I know many of the guys out there are thinking this might be a good thing, but apparently it’s not. Maybe every woman secretly wants this, but every one I’ve spoken to seems to turn their nose up at the idea. Maybe that’s just when they’re around me? What is it, guys? What would possibly make you think that taking pictures of your boyhood (yes, that’s a cut) and mail them to strangers? Did you spend too much time educating yourself with wrestling shows and spending way too many weekends at home with your D&D pals? I think that guys who whip it out for a few not-so-candids are a total joke. The other funny part to this is that with so many guys doing it, I’m sure I must know some of them! That’s scarry!
Anyway, my rant is over. It’s time to get back to more personal projects. I just finished cleaning the house but couldn’t find my digital camera anywhere. Oh, there it is! Ziiiiip. FLASH! Ahhhh... :)
If you’re for or against the FLASH, leave your message below!
Posted by CupidsReviews Doug at August 30, 2006 4:46 PM
Comments
Yeah, it does seem odd. I wrote about this on my blog just yesterday. To soemone being pragmatic about getting laid via a dating site, as opposed ot looking for a relationship, one can save time by including a picture of the president in their bulk mail, because all but the most unapologetically wanton girls will be turned off by it, and thus his audience is self-selecting. Not everyone wants to spend a lot of time mailing back and forth building relationships that may or may not turn into sexual encounters, and then be left with a lot of clingy girls who want monogamy, or at least to continue the relationship after sex. Some people just want to hook up. Not that I'm advocating this approach, I think there's a better way.
Posted by: strix at September 13, 2006 12:01 PM
i wouldn't mind getting some good horny hot penis pics to look at as often as i'd like, though, feeling a nise hard one is much better. if the penis is in my age group (58-63) is white and clean, i have no problem with it.
Posted by: caroline at September 18, 2006 11:11 PM
You know, Caroline, maybe I'm off base. I know a lot of women complain to me about penis pics but maybe most don't mind it. Could it be that's just not something you're looking for from someone you'd consider dating?
Posted by: Tyric at September 19, 2006 1:43 PM
I think that women love to get pics of guys penis all the time because some of them are single or some of them are married but looking.
Posted by: Stephanie at January 19, 2007 6:40 AM
I LOVE PENIS
Posted by: TANYA at March 15, 2007 3:43 PM
Pictures of penises are fine with me. Difficult to say if you are looking at the real deal or a cut 'n' paste of someone else though. I'd prefer a streaming message which includes some info specific to me....then I'd prefer to see flaccid vs. erect and maybe a mastubation to climax. If there's going to be penis, then let it be the whole story !
Posted by: Kathleen at May 18, 2007 12:32 AM
you are so right
Posted by: niks at November 21, 2007 12:15 PM
