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November 4, 2009
More Than A Fling With A Hot Mature Woman?
In an effort to find a better partner, I've been checking out a number of local dating sites in hopes I will find a hot mature woman willing to date a younger guy - and it has to be more than just a fling. After dating a number of girls my age or a few years younger, I'm starting to have major doubts as to whether I'm looking for women in the right age bracket. Whether my past girlfriends are just looking for a very casual, short-term affair or we just don't seem in sync when it comes to levels of maturity, more and more I find myself dumping women or getting dumped.
This is not to say there aren't girls out there my age who would be a good match, but there are other reasons a hot mature woman is right up my alley. Any guy who has been with a mature girl knows they tend to be absolutely fantastic in bed. It could be because they aren't as shy as younger women or simply a matter of experience, but whatever the reason, the best sex I've ever had is with a woman roughly ten years older than me.
In my efforts to find a mature girlfriend, most of the responses I've received have been from ladies just looking for a fling. Naturally, as my experience in the sack with a hot older woman or two has been phenomenal, one would think I would jump at the chance (and one would be right, because I have in the past), but I feel as though I've reached an age where I need something more. As I mentioned though, I've dated a number of hot sexy babes around my age and find something lacking in the personality department.
I managed to score a date with an older woman tonight and I have no clue how to make my intentions known without royally messing things up. I honestly believe I have quite a lot to offer: I have a steady job, a great sense of humor (or so I've been told) and unless I've been lied to by a dozen chicks, I'm pretty good in bed too! The only part that really stumps me is how to take thing to the next level and turn a casual relationship into something pseudo serious.
Posted by lucas at November 4, 2009 2:05 AM
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There is something about older women...something that draws a lot of young men to them...maybe their experience in bed..?
Posted by: Anderson at November 11, 2009 12:47 PM
