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October 17, 2007
No-Guilt When Dating For Sex
I recently saw the movie Kinsey, which tells the true-life story of Alfred Kinsey. This was the guy who, back in the 1940s, became the first scientist to do extensive research into the sexual behavior of American men and women. It is a fantastic story because he uncovered the reality of what people do behind closed doors (this is where we get the general idea that about 10 percent of the population is homosexual, for example). With 'no guilt when dating for sex' all too common these days, it's inspirational to look back at a period when society was still living under the sexually-repressed rules of the Victorian Age. Sex dating is nothing to be ashamed about.
Sex is in our nature. It's our biological right. Some even go as far as to say when people orgasm they're communing with God, hence the reason why the Church is against sex before marriage, birth control and in some cases against sex at all unless it's in the name of reproduction (i.e. producing the future generation of parishioners). Through interviewing about 18,000 people and publishing two reports (the first on men, the second on women), Kinsey helped people get over the shame, fear and guilt they felt towards their sexual desires.
Kinsey's work is good to keep this in mind when searching for no guilt sex dating or hook-ups or meaningful sexual relationships or whatever you want to call it. It's good, not because you have to worry about what other people think since the anonymity of the Internet pretty much avoids that problem. It's good because of what it does for your own mental and spiritual well being. There's no such thing as "normal" or "abnormal" sexual behavior. Think of it more in terms of likes and dislikes. It will no doubt take time (not to mention a bit of experimentation) to figure out what your likes and dislikes are, but once you do, then it will only be a matter of finding the right sexy dating service so you can find someone else who likes the same stuff.
Posted by Rick at October 17, 2007 2:00 AM
