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June 10, 2009
Shy Sexy People Are The Best
It's no secret that for almost everyone, the sexiness of a person goes well beyond their looks. Attitude is often key, at least I know it is for me. For quite a few people, sexiness is associated with confidence and that seems to make sense. However, I can also find shy sexy and I don't think I'm alone on this one either. You don't even have to be bold and brash to succeed in adult sex dating. In fact, sometimes the opposite approach can be way more appealing and successful in the dating world.
I'm not sure why I've always found shy hot people so appealing. Maybe it has got something to do with the fact that I'm generally not shy at all and over-the-top in most things I do. Maybe I need a shy sexy babe to counterbalance my bombastic personality. Or maybe it doesn't have as much, or anything for that matter, to do with me. Could there be something inherently sexy about shyness? I think so.
If someone is shy, it doesn't necessarily mean that they have a low self-esteem. In fact, it could mean quite the contrary: they have enough confidence not to need to show off. Maybe they are even afraid to do so because it might make them look vain and distract from all that they really have to offer a potential adult match.
Maybe someone's assets, including good looks, sense of humor and all the other good traits shine brighter when the person in question is not deliberately drawing attention to them. Also, a shy sexy babe has another edge: mystery. If someone doesn't go into all that much detail about themselves, it could possibly make one wonder just what might await them if they happen to get involved with this person, at least I do.
The possibility that someone may be a dove in conversation, but a tiger between the sheets is an intellectual turn-on to say the least and always a really exciting prospect, or at least it is for me. Shy can be sexy and that's something I can say with confidence.
Posted by Dylan at June 10, 2009 2:47 AM
