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February 16, 2009
Someone For Your Master Slave Relationship Fantasies
For those who are feeling adventurous and are willing to let go of their inhibitions, sex dating sites are a good way of finding like-minded people who are also looking for a master slave relationship. For something that a majority considers to be unconventional, it's surprising that a good number of men and women with different dating ideas are involved in this kind of practice. It kind of makes me wonder just how many couples I know have a master slave relationship when they're in the privacy of their own homes.
I used to view BDSM pretty much the same way as most people and just the thought of it brings to mind images of chains, whips and dark dungeons. As it turns out, there's more to a master slave relationship than meets the eye. I had a better appreciation of it after watching the sex comedy Exit To Eden. It's a film adaptation of a book written by none other than Anne Rice, but under a different name of course since humor wouldn't sit very well with the image of someone famous for writing horror fiction. The tongue-in-cheek manner by which it presents and explores the nature of BDSM makes the subject a little less uncomfortable and besides, watching Rosie O'Donell in leather with a whip is hilarious.
It was a good movie and most importantly, it gave some valuable insights on the dynamics of this type of relationship. On the outside, it may look like it's all about pain and domination, but just like in any kind of relationship, it is built on a foundation of trust. There is an intangible bond that forms and grows stronger with every erotic sexy encounter. When you think about it, no one would like to be a willing slave to someone they don't completely trust with their lives. It's a matter of entrusting oneself in the hands of another without any fear and doubt. It's just another way of getting intimate with a partner and in the end, the satisfaction that you get is what's important.
What's strange and freaky to some people is a sensual and liberating experience for others. It's just a matter of preference and while it may be not as extreme, a lot of us are guilty of some quirky sexual practices as well.
Posted by regis2 at February 16, 2009 2:18 AM
