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December 26, 2007
Straight Advice For A Beautiful Muslim Girl
It's rare that we'll post letters from our readers, but I've gotten a few letters recently that have hit on a similar subject matter, so I wanted to share this one. I hope that my response will be of help.
Dear Mark John,
I am a beautiful Muslim girl who has been having difficulty finding men to date in my area. I know that it is hard for most people, but my situation seems to make it very difficult. I cannot date persons who are non-Muslim, as nice as they may be and even though I do meet Muslim men, I have not yet met anyone that I would like to pursue a relationship with. Are there dating sites that cater specifically to Muslims?
Thank you,
Lonely Muslim
Well, LM, I have to say that you're right. It's difficult for all of us, regardless of our backgrounds, but there are definitely Muslim dating sites that cater specifically to persons like yourself. It seems sad that a beautiful Muslim girl like yourself should have such difficulty finding a suitable partner.
There are lots of dating advice books that offer advice on what to do while on a date, but if it's a specific person you're looking for, I always recommend online dating sites. There are sites that cater to Catholics, Jewish daters and Christians, so it's no wonder that there are sites for Muslims as well. Trying one of these could prove to be just the thing you're looking for.
Most of the time, I recommend that my friends who are new to online dating start out slow. It's not that hard to get the hang of it, but you'll want to make sure that you're going to be meeting someone with whom you are a good match. Otherwise, it can waste even more of your precious time. Writing a profile that very accurately describes you and what you're after is the first step to success. That way, you'll be assured that those who end up contacting you will know what you're looking for in a partner and they'll know a little bit about you as well.
Online relationships are not the be-all and end-all, so it's important that once you do make some good contacts, you take it to that next level and start meeting some of these people in real life. I'm sure a beautiful Muslim girl like yourself will have no trouble finding all kinds of men who will be wanting to date you. Make sure that you pick only the guys that deserve you. I know that this is going to open up a whole new world of possibilities for you and I wish you the best of luck.
Posted by MarkJohn at December 26, 2007 3:27 PM
