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August 24, 2009
The Beautiful Gay Girl In Our Office
I arrived to work early one day and I had the chance to chat with Marjorie, our 19-year-old lunch lady. We talked mostly about how much we're looking forward to a relaxing weekend until we started talking about our love lives. I talked about how excited I am to bring my girl to what my buddies and I call "videogame night" and she talked about how pissed she is that her lover had canceled their plans to go hiking. I did advise her to dump "him" until she corrected me and said that her lover is actually a girl. It turns out that our beautiful lunch lady is actually a beautiful gay girl.
Marjorie told me her love story is quite complicated. She fell in love with a 20-year-old woman named Kim who was in a previous relationship for four years. Kim was 16 years old then when she met her ex and that woman whom Marjorie described as a lesbian beauty was 18 at the time. Long story short, the woman was forced by her family to marry a guy they picked out for her so she had to end her love affair with Kim. Kim then met Marjorie and they became a couple. The ex found out about Marjorie and she's not happy about it. In fact, she's still looking for ways that she and Kim can remain a couple.
Well, I'm obviously stumped on how to advise her since this is new to me and I'm not a beautiful gay girl who had has any experience in these matters, although I did tell her to stick around Kim for a bit. Kim's ex doesn't have a claim on her now since she's married. I did tell Marjorie that things could get bumpy since Kim and her ex were in love for four years and that the latter was only forced to marry by her family. Kim might still be in love with her since they had been together for a long period of time, so Marjorie should prepare herself if Kim does go back to her. If that happens then she should just get back in the saddle after she heals. She's young and she's a beautiful girl anyway. Lesbian dating will be a breeze for her.
I don't know if that's the best advice I could give her since I haven't really experimented with gay dating. When I'm giving advise, I tend to imagine myself in the other person's shoes and think what I would have done if it were me in their place. Hopefully the ex leaves Kim and Marjorie alone so they can start anew.
Posted by regis at August 24, 2009 2:58 AM
