Cupids Dating Blog

It's not really something I can do myself, though, or anything I can use my own advice or romance tips to accomplish. Rather, by its very nature, it's something that needs to happen to me. You see, while I have successfully and not so successfully picked up attractive women in bars, clubs and online, I have never been picked up by a sexy fantasy girl myself, that is, until last night.

I was in my neighborhood bar having a drink with a friend and she walked in. She was cute, thin, athletic and sexy as hell. Soon enough she joined us and we started talking, picking out tunes on the jukebox as they were free and we basically hit it off. Then, seemingly out of nowhere, she made the first move and kissed me. I kissed back, she critiqued my technique a bit (wow, never thought that would happen to me) and we continued.

We ended up back at her place and in keeping with my gentlemen don't kiss and tell policy, I'll leave the next part of the story to your imagination. Needless to say, I was quite happy and had finally lived my sexy fantasy, that is until she got up and said: "okay, I've got to go to sleep now, have a good night, are you okay for getting home or should I call you a cab?"

I was surprised to say the least. I knew guys who did this to girls on one-night stands, but never heard of it happening the other way around and really didn't expect it to happen to me. I felt satisfaction mixed with a strange bit of rejection. I had my fantasy realized then any fleeting hope of even a bit of phony temporary romance dashed all in the space of a few hours.

I would like to say to anyone looking for a one-night stand in a bar or in the sex personals, please just be aware that the hardest rejection could follow the sweetest seduction, even if you're a guy.