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Okay, so I've got a bias in this particular situation. I wouldn't call myself thick sexy but I'm no supermodel either. (You probably suspected as much considering I can string a series of words together to form what we like to call a "sentence.") I know what I've got goin' on and where there's room for improvement. Like the vast majority of us out there, I know I don't fit into the cookie-cutter model of ideal beauty we're forced to look at on a daily basis. This is why I'm inspired by people who refuse to buy into the hype.

I'm sure the guys who proudly admit "I like big booty BBW" would likely dismiss me for being too skinny. Rejection is never a good thing, but at least in this case they're rejecting me on their terms, based on what they like not what they're told to like. My philosophy has always been that if I'm going to lose, I'll lose being me. If you lose while you're trying to be something you're not, you'll never know if you would have done better had you just been yourself. There are rarely second chances.

The same goes for dismissing a chick because she doesn't look like the image on the cover of a magazine. See past the fashion, hair, make-up and not-so-perfectly-toned body and you're sure to find some awesome gals out there. If it just so happens that their "imperfect" thick sexy bodies perfectly fit your definition of beautiful, all the better.

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