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June 22, 2009
Things To Consider Before You Marry A Rich Woman
It seems all columns and articles directed toward men relating to wealthy dating give tips on how to marry a rich woman, but there are some things you may want to consider before seeking out a wealthy partner for marriage.
In terms of simply finding a partner in the first place, many guys may notice dating sites for affluent people are usually packed with gold diggers. The ratio of men to women on online dating sites can be pretty discouraging, to say the least. It's pretty obvious why both men and women are looking to marry up the financial food chain. Point being, if you're one of the many men looking to marry a rich woman, your chances of finding a meaningful relationship with a wealthy lady online plummet as low as your latest bank account balances because you're just one of many fish in the sea.
Guys should also factor in the power principle. Many men may be used to the idea of being in charge in a relationship, whether it's for financial reasons or outdated social constructs. It can come as a real blow to the ego when you find yourself going out for an expensive dinner and when the check arrives, you sit there sheepishly as she pays your way. And this applies to pretty much everything: vacations, shopping, rent or house payments etc. Whatever it is she may want, it will likely be beyond your means and this can be quite humbling.
Along those same lines, when Christmas, anniversaries or birthdays rolls around, you'll want to buy her something special, but anything you get for her she can easily purchase herself. This is not to say that you can't get her something that isn't strictly a material good. You can always do something special such as cooking her dinner, preparing a romantic bubble bath with candles and music or putting together a mix of relatively cheap gifts or homemade presents. However, if she's more of a material girl who buys you expensive things for special occasions, cheap dates and DIY presents likely won't impress her.
Not to wholly discourage all you guys looking to meet rich ladies - there are obvious benefits when you marry a rich woman. It's hard to complain about the aforementioned expensive vacations and dinners dates, but before you decide to tie the knot with a well-to-do lady, you may want to take some of these disadvantages into account. It's always better than going in blind.
Posted by lucas at June 22, 2009 2:37 AM
