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June 25, 2009
Where Are All The Erotic Mature Women?
Having recently ended a three-year relationship, I really wanted to spice up my sex life. I don't know what it is, but lately I've had this fantasy of having a fling with an erotic mature lady. Any guys in their 20s looking for older women to hook up with may be sharing my frustration. It seems impossible to find a decent-looking woman in her 40s who is up for casual sex. After checking out a couple sex dating sites, I've had little to no luck and I'm starting to think that maybe they simply don't exist.
The biggest problem I came across on these dating sites was a complete inability to come up with any interesting conversation starters. How do you introduce yourself? What's the first thing you should say? I was never so obtuse as to start off a conversation asking if they would be up for no-strings-attached sex, but felt like most of the erotic mature ladies I found were either chatting with me because they thought I was wealthy or just toying with me for fun. Whatever the case, none of my conversations resulted in a date. It could be that I just don't speak their age-specific language of love because I don't have any trouble picking up chicks my own age.
Some may be wondering why I have this attraction to older women. Admittedly, one of the main reasons is that they are rumored to be better in bed. This could be just a generalization, but after three years of dating someone who was rather shy in the sack, the thought of a woman who is really relaxed and open about their sexuality is a major turn-on. The second reason is, I've always been told I seem to be wiser and more mature than most of people my age. Dating an erotic mature woman therefore seems completely sensible (even if it's just casual).
I imagine if I had a better job and made more money, that would make a difference in my hunt for older women. Not that all women are just after guys for their money, but having a more stable income would probably reflect well on my overall personality. There are so many affluent men walking around town with gorgeous women on their arms, so I'm thinking that may be the key. If so, it might be a while until my fantasies are realized!
Posted by lucas at June 25, 2009 2:48 AM
