Cupids Dating Blog

Specifically, I think they are all from Trinidad. I really don't know why I've suddenly started running into people from that part of the world, but whether through friends or an online matchmaking services, I keep coming across these beautiful black women and they just blow me away.

I know a lot of guys prefer to be more dominant in a relationship in the sense that they feel they should be ones with the most to offer, but I like to learn something from the people I know. I think it's important that relationships encourage you to grow a little. Not only do these gals have a lot to offer, but they correct my use of semicolons when I write to them. I feel a bit out of my league.

Yeah, in case no one has noticed, I'm a bit of a nerd. By "a bit" I, of course, mean that I am a world-class nerd that can bore computer-geeks, scientists and voracious readers to tears without pausing for breath. Ok, seriously, I hope I'm not that bad, but I really like books and people sometimes thing I'm a bit of a snob. People start telling me about a harlequin romance and I start drawling on about the Epic of Gilgamesh. Their eyes roll back in their head and they run away. That's how it usually goes.

These beautiful black women I've been meeting though, not only do they share my taste and appetite and even more shockingly find me interesting, one conversation with the most recent woman has left me with a reading list so long and full of obscure manuscripts that I feel like I'm starting a world literature course.

I don't meet people like this often. I didn't meet people like this often when I was in university. So, I find it really strange to be meeting so many of these awesome, hyper-literate and cool women all of the sudden.

By "strange" I mean that I'm beside myself with excitement and am absurdly nervous that they'll realize that I'm dumb they their standards and move on. I better get back to my homework.