Cupids Dating Blog

When I confronted my friend about it, he explained she had been feeling really self-conscious as of late. In my eyes, she will always be a stunning black babe. It's amazing how damaging your sense of self can be when it goes sour. We had such a great thing going (I did actually think it was going somewhere) and overnight reveries of Sunday morning sexy languor dissipated. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely adore a hot BBW woman with self-confidence. The issue is that the spark between me and this woman died because apparently, she's self-conscious.

The question naturally arises, "If she's self-conscious about being a black BBW, why would she identify herself as such on a dating site?" One guess is that there is another issue that my friend won't tell me for one reason or another. He does know how long and hard I've been crushing on this girl. Relative to the other BBWs I see on dating sites, she's actually just curvy and perhaps thick. Perhaps she thinks that only men into larger women would want to date her?

Being the online sleuth that I am, I created a false profile and started messaging her. It seems she's more than happy to keep a relationship restricted to instant messaging and online dating, but of course, I am not. Over the past couple of days I like to drop small compliments and even asked her why she would be on a BBW dating site. Dishonesty isn't good, I know, but my only intention is to try and figure out why she doesn't want to hang out and flirt the way we used to. Well, to be honest, my primary intention is to have those dreamy, love-fueled Sunday mornings - and if I have to sign in on Sunday to get that, I'm more than happy to do that.