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July 4, 2008
You Had Better Learn How To Kiss
One of the first things we learn when in our very first relationship is how to kiss. I'm sure they weren't easy, those first few kisses, especially if neither of you had kissed before. There's an awkwardness that, while it may be endearing at the time, later on in life just gets to be troublesome. I mean, if you're out there looking on matchmaking sites for someone to be with, you had better know how to kiss, or your relationship dreams will probably never come true.
Let's face it, relationships are about a lot of things, but the physical aspect is a huge part of it. If you're living with a partner and there's no physical love, then you're really just roommates. Believe me, I've been there.
I don't know how people get to the point in their lives where they haven't yet learned to kiss properly, but it happens. I'm not sure if it's just a lack of experience, or maybe nobody ever gave them any kissing tips. Maybe it's just completely genetic and they're entirely lacking the physical makeup required to be a good kisser, but whatever it is, it's bound to be a problem.
I used to be married. I remember talking with my wife in bed one night about a friend of ours that had been dating this guy for a while. She really liked him, but the guy just could not kiss. She said it was like kissing a frog that just absolutely refused to turn into a prince. Well, she's gone on to get married and that guy is still single. All because he never learned how to kiss properly.
I'm not exactly sure that there's any advice I can give to people who don't know how to kiss, but I can say that it's important you somehow manage to wrap your head around the concept or you might be single for a long time to come. I guess the only thing to do is keep trying, keep an open mind and hope for the best.
Posted by MarkJohn at July 4, 2008 3:22 PM
