ItalianoSingles.com is where Italians can meet and hopefully fall for each other. This site is strong from a technical point of view and the profile questions are quite detailed. Unfortunately, there are no local search options unless you upgrade to a premium membership, but you can see how recently another member has logged onto the site. As a paying member you'll be able to contact people you're interested in, regardless of membership status, because it's free to reply to messages. Moreover, it's very competitively priced.
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